Destiny (or fate) is one of those silly theories that I totally believe in. In the last 24-5ish years, my life has seemingly been a clear roadmap. One decision leading to another. Moments of rejection turning into amazing opportunities. A domino effect of people around you making various decisions and changes at very specific and strangely opportune times. It’s like pieces of a puzzle fitting together to lead to a very clear picture of what a person is suppose to do next. At least, I think, that’s what it seems like? 

Are there ways a person can sabotage or alter their destiny? One might think they aren’t really altering, in fact they’re doing exactly what their destiny has mapped out for them which is to make themselves think they are altering by making a decision that seems clearly not the right decision only to find out months later it was the best decision they could have ever made.

But can one attempt to alter their destiny? I think there are a few ways destiny can be altered:

1) Take every wrong turn regardless of what your GPS tells you

2) Set unrealistic goals

3) Deny your passions or clearly visible talents as opposed to embracing them

But maybe with these tips, destiny only means one thing: failure.

Well, that’s silly isn’t it? But who says destiny always results in something positive? Not necessarily. So I guess there is no single way to alter any destiny since the life path set before you is just as it should be, right?

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